Kaeley Harms

Kaeley Harms

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  • No-fault divorce isn't the actual problem

    No-fault divorce isn't the actual problem

    No-fault divorce didn’t create a new problem as much as it revealed a pre-existing one. Let’s have that conversation.

  • 'But I was born this way': Please hear me out on this LGBT argument

    'But I was born this way': Please hear me out on this LGBT argument

    It wouldn’t do much good to march up to an obese person and scream, “Repent, glutton! Turn or burn!” or hold up picket signs reading “God hates fat people.” Unfortunately, that’s basically what too many in the Church have done to gay people, and it’s awful.

  • So Elisabeth Elliot is trending ...

    So Elisabeth Elliot is trending ...

    Your first priority is to make sure you’re safe, but once you are, you are not spiritually required to enable sin. This is easy theology to defend, but we simply don’t see enough of the Elisabeth Elliot diehards preaching it. The question is why.

  • The formula for church sex scandals

    The formula for church sex scandals

    In a broken, porn-sick world where sexual trauma is the rule, not the exception, it is imperative for churches that care to thoroughly understand the nature and power dynamics of sexual abuse.

  • Men are from Earth. Women are, too

    Men are from Earth. Women are, too

    I think I was on my fourth copy of the popular marriage book Love and Respect before I finally figured out why I hated it so much.

  • Why I'm no longer a cessationist

    Why I'm no longer a cessationist

    In many ways, this was the beginning of my deconstruction journey. If everything I believed up until this point about how God operated was wrong, what else was I missing?

  • Why bashing feminism for trans insanity is a misfire

    Why bashing feminism for trans insanity is a misfire

    The answer to feminist overreach is not patriarchal oppression. The answer to both extremes is the freedom that is found in Christ. There was no gender hierarchy in Eden, and there will be no gender hierarchy in Heaven.

  • Matt Walsh misses the mark on gender ... again

    Matt Walsh misses the mark on gender ... again

    Let brave, bold, impassioned people of both sexes arise to do God’s work wherever He calls them to do it and without the confines of performative stereotypes that aren’t even biblical to begin with.

  • ‘Shiny, Happy, People’: Exposing abusively patriarchal ideology marketed as Christian living

    ‘Shiny, Happy, People’: Exposing abusively patriarchal ideology marketed as Christian living

    The antidote to the patriarchy of the Gothard cult is not the patriarchy of progressivism. The antidote to the patriarchy of the Gothard cult is surrender to the lordship of Christ.

  • Apostasy and the Jezebel spirit

    Apostasy and the Jezebel spirit

    Can we talk about the term ”the Jezebel spirit” for a minute? If you’re a mouthy Christian woman who vocally opposes chauvinism in the Church, it’s not a matter of if you’ll be accused of this; it’s a matter of when.