The invisible wounds of our nation’s veterans
I placed my backpack on the bus seat and slid next to the window. Others were boarding and stowing their luggage up on the overhead shelf. A young man with two white plastic garbage sacks was waiting for everyone else to board — he was either being polite or embarrassed, I couldn’t tell.
Where we live, if you’re carrying your belongings in garbage sacks, it sends the message that you’ve either just gotten out of jail or a treatment center.
He politely showed the driver his ID and handed him the voucher that state agencies give in lieu of cash. He carried his two bags all the way to the back of the bus. I was a couple of seats in front of him. A man behind me nodded to the young man as he placed his bags down.
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“Where are you heading?” the older man asked.
“Seattle, but not for long. I hope to go somewhere else.” The young man seemed distant, not inviting conversation.
But the older man persisted. “Do you have family there?”
“No.”
The older man asked, “Do have work lined up?”
“No. I’ll find something.”
“What kind of work do you like?” the older man asked.
“I’ll do anything for now.” The young man’s answer would have been a perfect place to nod and allow the rumble of the bus engine to cover the silence. But the older man seemed intent on connecting with a young man heading to Seattle without a plan.
I listened as they talked about the young man’s military service in Afghanistan. He returned home, but not fully. It seemed there were parts of his life left back in that embattled nation. He couldn’t find a place to start his life here. Drug use helped with his war-time nightmares, but now he was clean.
This is the reality for some of our nation’s veterans. Some come back with invisible wounds in their minds. Brain trauma, PTSD, and depression. The statistics bear this out. Since our nation went on the offensive after 9/11, we’ve lost 7,057 military personnel in armed conflict. But even more sobering is that we’ve lost over 30,000 veterans to suicide. According to the Department of Veteran Affairs, 17 vets commit suicide each day.
The mental health services offered to our nation’s veterans aren’t as timely as needed. Waiting several months for an appointment and then talking to someone who hasn’t experienced the same mental anguish isn’t helpful.
But as a young veteran talked, an older man on a bus listened. Two hours later I noticed the older man emptying his backpack.
“Here, take this. I have another one at home.” The man gently handed over his backpack.
A slight smile came to a young man’s face. He placed his garbage-bagged belongings in the gifted backpack. He might have been heading out into the big city, but he didn’t look as hopeless.
America, we should honor those who have served us. We should make sure all our veterans get the care they need. I was humbled by what I heard and saw — all it took was a willingness to care. God bless our veterans and their future here back home.
Karen Farris saw the need to help underserved kids while serving in a youth ministry that gave her the opportunity to visit rural schools on the Olympic Peninsula. She now volunteers her time grant writing to bring resources to kids in need. She also shares stories of faith in action for those needing a dose of hope on her weekly blog, Friday Tidings.www.fridaytidings.com
